Although St. Francis de Sales is the patron of journalists, his life and words can also be an inspiration to those who spend hours, and often years, in prayer for the return of loved ones to the Faith. Francis had patience to wait until God’s will for him was made clear. Then, with perseverance and determination, he followed the path God had shown him.

He believed he should be a priest, and waited for years for God to tell him. Finally, God’s will became clear when Francis fell from his horse several times. With each fall, his sword and scabbard fell to the ground and formed a cross. At first, as a priest he was ineffective because people found him conceited and condescending.

Still, Francis’ faith gave him

patience. When no one opened their door to him, he slipped copies of his sermons underneath. When Francis turned to the children, his kindness finally won over the parents. Eventually, he led 40,000 people back to the Faith.

Just as we do not judge our prodigals, Francis believed the worst sin was passing judgment on others. He also said to be just as gentle and forgiving with ourselves as we are with others.

St. Francis de Sales, by your example may we learn to love, not judge; to wait patiently for God instead of becoming anxious; & to persevere in prayer for our beloved prodigals. Amen. ♥